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Intro to Getting Off

Have you ever come across a statistic that showcases nearly 70% of young adults masturbate?

Well, if you haven't, you have now!

If you don't know why such a huge percentage favors masturbation, you might want to try it out one night after a long day at work. Or one morning in a shower before your interview.

It is not a matter of debate; masturbation surely calms your nerves and actually makes you relax. Most times for free!

How to masturbate

How to masturbate is not something you would find in your high school curriculum or in some advanced rulebook no. In fact, the topic is not what most people like to discuss. Most people picked up masturbating themselves through curiosity during puberty or after a long lonely night.

This is why we've decided to be your secret coach and provide you with some methods. 

Grinding your pillow

Suppose you feel sexually frustrated for any reason, and by chance you feel the need to self love. In that case, you'll quickly find that you're not with many options, especially if you don't wanna start trying out different objects. That could be dangerous, by the way.

The alternative is simple, stress-free and highly stimulating. Grinding your pillow is simply pushing your soft pillow against your genitals, which is meant to flush against the most sensitive part of your body, your clitoris, and create a sensual stimulation that would tip you over the sexual edge. It's that simple and achievable.

More so, it's easy, safe and very effective. 

Humping your pillow

This is similar to those mentioned earlier since you would need to occasionally grind to achieve the desired effect. 

So many people have testified to this approach. Why? Because it's so easy and you wouldn't have to spend a dime. Think of it as a homemade recipe or a life hack for which people are spending a lot.

Humping your pillow requires you to put pressure on your genitals the same way as ground but in a more rhythmic, I dare to say aggressive manner. Make sure the pressure is there; stimulate other sensitive parts of your body, like your nipples. 

What other options do you have?


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If you're not opposed to spending a few bucks, I'm delighted to welcome you into a world of vibrators. Vibrators will get you that similar sensation that you're already familiar with; however, it would do so with less effort and probably in less time.

Vibrators come in different sizes, designs and functionality. If you're a beginner or generally new to sex toys of this nature, you might wanna go for bullet vibrators.

As its name suggests, they're small, effective and easy to handle. You can check them out right here! 

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